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“We moved into the house without hot water, a gutted laundry room, and dripping septic lines. That was just the beginning – and I was six months pregnant with our fifth child.”
Those first months were a lesson in patience and what we really needed not just wanted. Hot water, while oh so pleasant, really is a luxury. We learned that, by turning two giant canners on high, we’d have boiling water in 45 minutes. I’d fill them the night before, and in the morning Blaine would get up, turn the stove on, and go back to bed. His next alarm went off 45 minutes later, and he’d have enough boiling water to heat up a bathtub full of cold. He’d take a bath, and then I’d take one in the same water. It was like something out of the stories I’ve heard from years past.
The lawn took me five hours to mow with our push mower. The first time I mowed, I had to mow backwards, pulling the mower, to keep it from dying on the overgrown mess we started out with. Oh, the memories. I managed to mow until I was 30 weeks pregnant. Every bit of our lawn is a hill, and when I finally gave up mowing it myself, it was dry enough it didn’t really need to be mowed. Just before Charlotte was born we were blessed with a riding lawn mower for a very, very low price. Right then, that was amazing. Nearly three years later, it’s still the mower I use.
Over Labor Day weekend, 3 1/2 months after we bought our house, we had hot water for the first time. In the process of replacing the gas lines, Blaine had been dripped upon from the septic lines and the water lines, and much of that had to be replaced as well. Before any of it could start, he had to dig out the crawl space, on his belly, just to get back to the lines. A good chunk of electric lines have also needed to be replaced, the hot water heater had to be replaced, but the bright light in it all was that Blaine was capable – and willing – but not exactly excited – to do it all himself. A lot of trips to Lowe’s, a definite blow to the finances, but it could have been so much worse.
The air conditioner (and heater) to our home was broken when we bought the house. It’s the only thing wrong with the place that we knew about. That was one hot summer. We still haven’t fixed either, despite saying we ought to do that. We’ve grown accustomed to hot, hot summers and hot, hot winters. The basement contained an amazing machine – one we didn’t realize quite what we had when we bought the place. We have a wood burning furnace down there that has (over) heated the house each winter and saved us huge amounts of money, for sure. Despite the problems we’ve dealt with here, this house has been perfect for us in some very lean years.
Charlotte was born three weeks after the hot water was fixed in the house. That story is a fun one, and can be read here for those that are interested. She came home to running cold and hot water, something to be thankful for. She was – and still is – about as quiet as they come. It’s nigh unto impossible to get that girl to yell. (Unless she’s hurt. Then… oh my.) She was happy and easy and such a joy to add to our family.
Blaine headed back to California for his yearly work trip in January. While he was gone, nursing 3 month old Charlotte suddenly took a dive, and that could only mean one thing.
I was expecting again.
You have a way of ending each segment leaving everyone wanting more – makes one sitting on edge waiting for the next installment – even if we already know the outcome. Great writing Adrienne.
I agree with your mom, Adrienne. So fun to read. Have I told you recently how much I admire you?
Charlotte Moore says
Oh, my, I can’t imagine not having hot water except for a day or so. Years ago when the power went out we did not have water at all because we had a well. So glad for county water now.I am so impressed with all you have gone through at a young age. Most young people would have thrown in the towel and their marriage would not have survived. I too really admire you. GOD BLESS!!!
I have enjoyed reading your blog, I have been sick for the past 4 days and it has been good to ready The Story Of Us from start to finish. Tell Blaine I said “hi!” I haven’t seen him since 1993 (?,) we are 2nd cousins once removed or something like that and Alysia referred me to your blog. I think I was supposed to be reading about homeschool stuff (a journey we are embarking on this year) but I got caught up in the stories and didn’t actually do that.
YOU are one good story teller, Adrienne. I am thoroughly enjoying reading about you and Blaine and those wonderful children of yours. Keep up the great work!! (in story telling and raising those children of yours!!!)